then I will apologise to the affected person.  It's a good habit to get into and helps banish feelings of pride.

Peter, you've admitted to being wrong on two counts with regards to the Disruption of 21st November.  An apology to AJ would be a good starting point for peace and reconciliation IMO.

Given the sheer number of posts on here dedicated to Brother AJ, it's clear you guys want him back!  Let's get the ball rolling, move forward and look to the future.

He very possibly would have had an apology as we explored the issue had he come to discuss it, however his wrongdoing, throughout and now, utterly dwarfs mine (which was at least unintentional and in good faith) and I don’t see anything resembling any acknowledgement or apology from him.

AJ demands standards from others which he does not come close to achieving himself. This is a fairly commonly held view.

Little lord Fauntleroy is always the victim.

He very possibly would have had an apology as we explored the issue had he come to discuss it, however his wrongdoing, throughout and now, utterly dwarfs mine (which was at least unintentional and in good faith) and I don’t see anything resembling any acknowledgement or apology from him.

AJ demands standards from others which he does not come close to achieving himself. This is a fairly commonly held view.

A big man doesn't look for conditions before making an apology, Pete.  A true apology comes from the heart and helps alleviate one from a situation where feelings of prude can fester away and damage one's innermost core.

You've already admitted to being wrong, so I the next logical step would be to apologise.  Honestly mate, it would make you look really good.

Quote from: PeterGrant on November 30, 2020, 09:54:04 am

He very possibly would have had an apology as we explored the issue had he come to discuss it, however his wrongdoing, throughout and now, utterly dwarfs mine (which was at least unintentional and in good faith) and I don’t see anything resembling any acknowledgement or apology from him.

AJ demands standards from others which he does not come close to achieving himself. This is a fairly commonly held view.

A big man doesn't look for conditions before making an apology, Pete.  A true apology comes from the heart and helps alleviate one from a situation where feelings of prude can fester away and damage one's innermost core.

You've already admitted to being wrong, so I the next logical step would be to apologise.  Honestly mate, it would make you look really good.

The only condition I ever require when making an apology is that the other person is acting in good faith.

Quote from: Hardliner on November 30, 2020, 10:39:49 am

Quote from: Coyne on November 30, 2020, 10:33:34 am

Hardliners is at the wind up and breaking out by posting on here, he might feel the wrath from the CC for having the audacity to post here 😂

Be lovely if AJ and DaftMo stay away.

Brother AJ has always been happy for the Mighty Righties to post on absence, in fact he has encouraged it.

Peter will be able to confirm this from his time on AJ's board.

Is the manchild victim going to apologise, for being a weirdo, creepy stalker?

I don't know, are you?

Quote from: Coyne on November 30, 2020, 10:57:21 am

Quote from: Hardliner on November 30, 2020, 10:39:49 am

Quote from: Coyne on November 30, 2020, 10:33:34 am

Hardliners is at the wind up and breaking out by posting on here, he might feel the wrath from the CC for having the audacity to post here 😂

Be lovely if AJ and DaftMo stay away.

Brother AJ has always been happy for the Mighty Righties to post on absence, in fact he has encouraged it.

Peter will be able to confirm this from his time on AJ's board.

Is the manchild victim going to apologise, for being a weirdo, creepy stalker?

I don't know, are you?

Poor attempt at deflection.

Not really made of strong stuff after all eh 😂😂😂

Quote from: Coyne on November 30, 2020, 11:16:05 am

Quote from: Hardliner on November 30, 2020, 11:02:25 am

Quote from: Coyne on November 30, 2020, 10:57:21 am

Quote from: Hardliner on November 30, 2020, 10:39:49 am

Quote from: Coyne on November 30, 2020, 10:33:34 am

Hardliners is at the wind up and breaking out by posting on here, he might feel the wrath from the CC for having the audacity to post here 😂

Be lovely if AJ and DaftMo stay away.

Brother AJ has always been happy for the Mighty Righties to post on absence, in fact he has encouraged it.

Peter will be able to confirm this from his time on AJ's board.

Is the manchild victim going to apologise, for being a weirdo, creepy stalker?

I don't know, are you?

Poor attempt at deflection.

Not really made of strong stuff after all eh 😂😂😂

It depends how you play it going forward mate.

If you go on a self imposed ban for doxing Noah as well as join the campaign for Pete to apologise for his errors, then that could go a long way to you being made of strong stuff.

That takes balls though, as well as swallowing your pride.  Have you got what it takes?

OYF 😂😁😂

Desperate times for Hardliner and the CC

I'm all for people being apologetic but they have to mean it and not just say it.

I've apologized many times over the years if I've been wrong it's the best way to be but it has to come from inside and not just say it because it's the right thing to do .

I agree Buc. Apologising is very empowering.